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Introducing: Critical Conversations
The Skills You Need to Communicate Best When It Matters Most
A Complete Training Workshop With Leader's Guide, Reproducible Participant Workbook, and PowerPoint Slides
The biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has been accomplished
– George Bernard Shaw
Now Trainers and Consultants can solve the tough communication challenges people face at work by delivering this powerful one day or two day communication workshop with dramatic results. This flexible, customizable workshop gives you everything you need to deliver the skills people need most at work: Communicating effectively to reach positive outcomes in difficult situations when the stakes are high and the challenges are great.
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Participants Will Learn to Apply Powerful Talking Tools to a Host of Challenging Communication Encounters
Participants then will learn to apply specific Talking Tools to a host of challenging communication encounters of particularly high stakes and sensitivity. The Talking, Persuading, and Influencing Tools participants learn and practice in this workshop will enable them to achieve decidedly positive results in working with others as they encounter the following TEN difficult communication situations:
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Giving Effective Praise that portrays sincerity and generates motivation and enthusiasm.
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Delivering Criticism without creating confrontation and conflict
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Conducting or participating in effective Performance Review sessions
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Conducting or participating in an effective Interview for a new job or promotion
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Making an Apology that touches the heart and convinces the mind.
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Asking Effective Questions to probe for facts and provoke for ideas.
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Arguing without Offending
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Communicating to Build Rapport and Create Trust
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Communicating to Create Collaboration and Engagement
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Communicating to Resolve Conflict and Reach Agreement
No other training program we know of covers all these critical communication situations. This is the most relevant On-Demand, On-the-Job communication training you can offer today, addressing people’s needs for practical Talking Tools to apply in the most challenging encounters they face at work.
From The hated Performance Review sessions and the sensitive coaching and feedback drills, to the potentially explosive encounters with angry colleagues or customers, this workshop provides participants with the practical techniques they can immediately put to work, starting right in the workshop’s role plays.
Communication is a difficult process even when the stakes are not high. But when they are, then communication becomes the most crucial tool you have to build trust, resolve conflict, inspire and lead others, and achieve great results. This workshop delivers the specific skills, powerful techniques, and real-world practices that make this possible.
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Delivers the Skills to Turn Critical Conversations from a Confrontational Mess Into a Way to Build Trust and Collaboration
Most communication training programs offer general information about the communication process, model, and principles. While participants may become more aware of the importance of good communication, they are left in dire need for specific ways to deal with real, tough, day-to-day communication encounters at work.
This unique workshop focuses on the specific application of powerful communication and influencing tools to the most critical, sensitive, and challenging fact-to-face encounters managers and staff are confronted with everyday at work.
The workshop equips participants with invaluable skills and provides them with the following benefits:
- It provides participants with proven techniques they can use in high-impact situations at work.
- It helps participants feel confident to communicate about any tough or sensitive issue.
- It enables managers and staff to engage in constructive conversations even when criticism, complaint, or other tough encounters are necessary.
- It delivers practical examples of what not to do, and what to do, when caught in those worst-of-all-possible-situations that require a higher level of communication competence.
- It empowers participants to turn critical communication situations into opportunity to build trust and achieve results.
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Real Training, Not Boring Lectures: Order Now
No boring Lectures!
The workshop deploys a large array of role-plays, activities, exercises, quizzes, and inspiring stories and materials to fully engage participants throughout the process, making learning both fun and more lasting.
The Complete Workshop Package Comes in an Electronic Format with three Components:
1- Leader's Guide: Provides Step-By-Step Facilitation Guidance with full explanation of concepts, research, and delivery considerations.
2- PLUS: Dramatic PowerPoint Slides that..
cover every skill offered to provide visual impact and help you keep your command of content and pace.
3- PLUS: Customizable and Reproducible Participant Workbook..
so you can add your organization's logo or department name, and make as many copies as you need at no additional fees, saving you hundreds of dollars.
You Have Two Options...
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We Can Deliver this Workshop at Your Organization - Save $500
1- We can deliver this training workshop at your site for $3000 per day plus per participant fee (plus travel) (For a limited time we offer $500 off our regular onsite fee of $3000 - get it for $2500 plus per participant fee depending on number of participants) - Call us at 973-427-3004 or email us: service@communicationideas.com
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Our Complete Training Package Enables You To Deliver the Training Yourself
Option 2- You can deliver this workshop yourself by purchasing the complete training package in MS Word: A step-by-step Leader's Guide, PowerPoint slides, Reproducible Participant's Workbook, for $395.00 -
Order the Complete Workshop Template Package Now:
One User/ One Organization License for $395.00 
Consultants / Multiple Organizations License for $495
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Save $500 On Critical Conversations Onsite Workshop Delivered by Francois Bsili
Celebrating the launching of our two newest workshops- Applying EQ at Work, and Critical Conversations - for a limited time we will come to your site to deliver either of these workshops at $500 off the normal fee of $3000 per session. You will pay only $2500 plus per participant fee that goes down with number of participants.
Take Advantage of This Unprecedented Opportunity: Get Our Powerful Workshops Delivered at Your Organization for Half the Cost. Our two new workshops are on their way to becoming a Best Seller each. Since we introduced them with the beginning of the year, many organizations have ordered the Off-The-Shelf package for their trainers to deliver them.
You can now have the developer of these two workshops, Francois Basili, President of Communication Ideas, come to deliver either of these workshops at your organization for $500 off the regular fee of $3000 per session.
Call us to reserve your date: 1-973-427-3004 - Or email us at: info@communicationideas.com
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From Chatting to Challenging: The Power of Purposeful Conversations
One of the key principles of effective communication covered in our workshop, “Critical Conversations” calls for “having purposeful conversations.” To illustrate what this means, let’s examine what Jane said to her colleague Tom on their way to the weekly department meeting: “We will have another one of those dumb meetings.”
You will notice that Jane's sentence does not call for any particular action. It does not invite a response. It does not offer a solution or an idea. It does not provoke or challenge or inspire. Nothing needs to happen as a result of this sentence. It’s basically a statement that has no definite purpose, a wasted utterance that filled the air and resulted in no consequences, other than perhaps a polite smile.
Now compare Jane’s useless statement with the following suggested alternative: “How can we make our department meetings more useful?” Here you will notice that by using a question instead of a statement, the sentence now requires a response. It opens a dialogue about the issue. It challenges the listener to come up with solutions. It inspires others to improve the situation. As a result, it helps move people toward achieving something better for everyone.
In all your talk with others, use “purposeful conversations” instead of utterances that have no purpose and no impact. This way, your conversations will consistently evoke action and achieve results.
© 2006 HumaNext. From “Critical Conversations” workshop. All rights reserved.
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How to Ask Questions to Get The Results You Want: The Monk's Method
In delivering communication skills training workshops to various groups over the past fifteen years, I came to depend on the following funny story to illustrate how the way people ask a question can determine the answers they get. I labeled this questioning technique, "The Monk's Method."
Two monks were praying, walking and talking as they do all day long. The junior monk said to the senior monk. "I'm surprised you're allowed to smoke while walking around and praying here in the monastery my dear brother. When I joined the monastery I asked our Head Monk about smoking and his answer was a resounding no. How come you are able to smoke with no problem? The senior monk smiled and said, "Am I right to assume, my dear brother, that you asked the Head Monk whether it was alright for you to smoke while praying? "Yes," said the junior monk. "I asked him whether it was alright for me to smoke while praying, and he looked at me disapprovingly and said, "Of course not. I'm surprised you would even ask."
"Ah!," exclaimed the senior monk. "You didn't know how to ask my dear brother. It all depends on how you put it. When I joined the monastery, I too asked the Head Monk about smoking, but in a slightly different manner. I asked him: "Dear Master, Is it alright for me to pray while smoking?" And he said, "But of course my son. You can pray anytime."
In asking questions, as well as in all other aspects of communication, it's not what you say that counts, but how you say it.
The Monk's Method is part of the "Asking Effective Questions" module of the "Critical Conversations" workshop. We can deliver it at your organization for $3000 plus expenses, or you can buy it to deliver it yourself for $395.00 - Read more about it in this page...
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Why Not Have Real Conversations at Work?
Instead of changing the subject, avoiding the topic, mumbling something, holding back, lashing out, telling little lies or big lies, why not have a real conversation?
An open, honest, free-flowing, affirming, and transforming communication?
Why not give ourselves to others, totally and completely, through conversations?
Why not put our souls on the wings of our words - bravely sharing our feelings and thoughts, declaring our intentions and visions?
Why hide and conceal ourselves while we have at our command this freeing and transcending field-force called language?
How can we get closer to one another with our words? How can we transform ourselves with our self-talk?
How can we engage with the world, with our important work in it and the people who shape it with us, through real, meaningful conversations?
Exercise: Ask trainees, colleagues, or your staff, to form groups of three to discuss the following:
- Which type of conversations you engage in more often at work, the one described in the first sentence or the alternative?
- What makes it difficult to engage more often in the kind of open, honest conversations described in the piece?
- What if you decide to engage in this kind of open, authentic conversations all the time, even if others do not?
- Who benefits more from open and honest conversations, the person who always engages in them or the person at the receiving end, at times responding in kind and at other times not responding.
(c) 2005 Communication Ideas. This exercise is part of the "Critical Conversations" training workshop. See below.
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I Gave Tom Constructive Criticism Yet He Got Upset. What Should I do?
In a communication skills workshop I was giving to a group of middle managers, a participant asked in a frustrated voice: I know we are supposed to give only constructive criticism, but even when my criticism is very constructive, it seems to create problems. It's easy to say we should give constructive criticism, but what I really need to know is exactly how to do that. I mean, I need the exact language you'd use to give a constructive criticism.”
I thanked her for being candid and asked her, “can you tell me exactly what you said that created a problem?"
She replied, “I said: Tom, the report you gave me is useless because you did not support your recommendations with any data. I expected a more complete job from you.” And she explained, “You see, I believe this was a constructive criticism because I did not attack Tom as a person. I didn't say he was negligent or sloppy. I focused on the report itself and talked about what it was lacking. Yet Tom was upset and felt that I was not appreciative of his work.” How else could I have provided a constructive criticism, she asked? Am I supposed not to give any criticism at all even when the work is clearly not acceptable?
My response was, “Here is a language you can use in this case: Tom, this is a well written report overall and I appreciate the time you have put in it. I suggest that you add data in support of each section to give more credibility to your final recommendations."
Notice that in talking this way to Tom, you have achieved the following:
- You first thanked Tom for his effort. Most employees complain that their managers show little appreciation for their work. Most managers don’t realize this fact.
- Then you talked about how the report can become more effective. Your focus was on the positive desire to make the report better, not on the negative focus on what the report was missing.
With this change of focus, you turn a critical conversation into an opportunity not only for coaching Tom on writing better reports but also for strengthening the working relationship between you and Tom. This can make a significant difference in Tom’s future performance and motivation.
© 2005-2006 HumaNext LLC – This exchange is part of our Critical Conversations Training Workshop. You can have us deliver it at your organization for $3000 per session plus per-participant-fee. Or you can deliver it yourself by buying our off-the-shelf program for $395
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